Tuesday, 11 January 2011

The risk of sub drop after a bdsm session

Just read a great blog post about 'sub drop' and this is something which is important to remember when you're playing. I feel that the more intense the play and the 'high' has been, the greater is the risk of a negative experience afterwards. That's the time when it is so important to be together, just Master and slave, devoting time to each other. Right now I am fortunate in that I am having Master with me for a while and after a session we always take much time cuddling, kissing and just relaxing together. Sex may have been a part of the session when it were at its height but when coming back to earth it's so wonderful just feeling the nearness of each other.

Master has never left me just after a session and I know He never will. Therefore I have never experienced the bad feelings of sub drop, either. But I can imagine it can be quite a negative experience and the aftercare is most important. Last week was one of daily canings and long periods of landing together afterwards.

How about 'dom drop'? Is there such a thing? Does it work in the same way? What do you say as a Dom? Have you ever felt bad after leaving your sub too early after a session? It would be interesting if you could comment on your experiences as this is an unknown world to me.

As for the blog post it came from the great Diary of a Kinky Librarian by Nadia West. Do visit her blog and say hello from me.

Saturday, 8 January 2011

The caning of tinaslut - or How to overcome Writer's Block

A good caning is actually a very good remedy for writer's block. Just ask me! As you have seen I have neglected my blog for an unacceptably long time and that is not fair to those of you who are following my blog. But now that Master is home for a while things are getting different. Procrastination and inertia are dangerous enemies when it comes to getting things done and I know I have a tendency to fall back and become inactive at times. Yes, despite all the self punishments I have practised it seems I have a lack of self discipline at times.

That's where the cane can work wonders...

When you start on some project, like blogging, you are often very enthusiastic about it from the beginning and rarin' to go. And it can work well for some time... then the inertia takes over and it's like a roulette wheel going slower and slower until it stops completely. Then you need something pushing you back on track. If inertia slows you down, procrastination is most effective for stopping you to do something about it. But thanks to the cane and my beloved Master wielding it I have overcome those two obstacles.

This week I have been caned each day, two times a day. Instead of applying a specific number of strokes Master starts quite slowly and gently, then strikes faster and harder and before I know it the strokes are raining upon my bottom and thighs like a shower of fire. It's like a spanking machine gone out of control and it always make me desperate for more and my screams of pain are just as much begging to be caned harder and faster. The cane whips up unbelievable masses of endorphins and very soon I am simply high on it... just can't get enough. When Master finally lays down the cane I am so happy to fall into His arms... it's the perfect way of landing after this unbelievably intense trip into subspace (or should I call it 'painslutspace'). More often than not we don't have sex after a session - we are just as happy laying together and feeling the nearness of each other... Master's caresses, soft kisses and words have a soothing effect on me and I know he will be with me all the time so I can relax and feel safe. When my pulse has gone down to normal and I have landed he smears my welted bottom with soothing balm and I simply feel like a newborn woman.

Is this sane? For us it is very much so. The thing is that in a few hours we will both want to do it again. This is maybe not the classic bdsm relationship as it doesn't really involve punishment as such. The worst punishment would be denying me what I crave: a real good trashing. According to the book of rules a punishment is not a punishment if the masochist (=me) enjoys it. But what does it matter? Master enjoys trashing me and I can never get enough of it. Often I beg Him to whip or cane me and he is always happy to do it. Actually, it is Him stopping me most of the times as my hunger for pain is so intense that maybe it's good I don't have a spanking machine after all... it would probably be over-heated ;-)

Is it sensible to get caned again just a couple of hours after a severe caning which has left my bottom globes covered with welts? For me it is very sane. Some of he puffy hard welts on my buttocks sometimes split so that blood appears. I can stand for long periods in front of the mirror, admiring the marks on my body while masturbating... it makes me soo horny.

A side effect of these sessions is that inertia is washed away completely, I get eager and full of energy and immediately want to deal with many things that have been neglected - like this blog. Pain is for me a source of eternal energy which is accessible any time I need it. It can work when I am practising self torture and self punishments but nothing can beat the way Master punishes me - that is, if you can call it a punishment after all. For me it's sheer pleasure and I can never get enough of it...

Time to bend over for the cane again... mmmmmmmm please trash me real hard this time, Master... make me bleed...

Thursday, 6 January 2011

Please help Marie helping the children

My friend, the stunningly beautiful Marie K Williams a/k/a Marie Blondie, asks for your help in raising funds for a setting up a school project, initially aimed at helping children and young people in India. Marie tells that

I visited Goa, in India, in November 2010. I was shocked to see young Children begging in the streets and was disturbed and moved by what I saw. I even had a Mother come and ask me if I would buy her Baby.

Marie has established a foundation for carrying out her goals. If you feel that you would like to support her cause please check out her foundation's website at http://www.marieblondiefoundation.com/ It is not the size of the contributions that matter - the important thing is to act. Nobody can solve everybody's problems but together we can do a great deal.

Marie is a professional model and if you want to know more about her do check out her website http://www.marieblondie.com/en/index If you are on Facebook you are welcome to join her group The Marie Blondie Foundation.

Tell her tina sent you...

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Wednesday, 5 January 2011

Where are you, Erica?

My sweet friend, where are you? I am very worried about you and I would be so glad to hear from you. During last year I have forwarded a number of requests to you and I don't know if you have found your new Master. Neither do I know anything about how your treatment has worked out but I sincerely hope that you are getting well. There may be many reasons for being absent (just ask me!) but I do hope you will be back soon and I am sending positive thoughts to you and look forward to hear from you soon. Hugs and kisses from tina xxxxxxx

Blonde slave girl getting punished

Sorry for my abscence. I am very glad that Master is now back for some time and he is doing his best to correct me and make me get things done. Like blogging. Let's start the new year by enjoying a nice video clip with a Mistress and her slave girl. It really fired me... hope you will enjoy it, too. Be with you again soon... kisses from tina xxxxxxxxxxx